zoe sandler wrote: Im expecting in August and have a 4 yr old daughter. I feel totally different this pregnancy...very tired and have had horrible morning (all day!!) sickness. I think i feel worse because unlike last time I now have a 4 yr old to run around after and entertain! I know every pregnancy is different, but really didnt think they could be THAT different!
Zoe, Congrats! I hope you are feeling better now that you are past the three month stage. I'm also amazed at how different things are this time around, it turns out I'm having a boy this time so maybe that is why.
Having a busy pre-schooler to take care of definitely makes a difference. Last time I was able to nap whenever I wanted. After work I could just go straight to sleep etc :-) .
Now, there is also a bit of added guilt that I don't have the energy to play with my daughter the same or pick her up as much. We are working on a parenting plan for when the baby arrives so things are not total chaos.
What about you? Have you put any plans in place to smooth the transition?